Joseph Jaxin Vandenberg

On December 23rd, 2024, Joseph Jaxin Vandenberg made the choice to leave this world. He was born on July 4th, 2002, in Ogden, Utah where he lived for the majority of his short life. 

He possessed a sharp mind and deep curiosity about the world and the people in it. Whether immersed in the intricate strategies of a chess match, passionately engaged in discussion about historical events, or sharing his knowledge regarding music or politics, he approached life as both a student and a teacher. His ability to explain, inspire and open the eyes of others left a lasting mark on everyone fortunate enough to learn from him. He was charming, funny, quick with a pun or a well-timed “your mom” joke and never hesitated to help those in need. He had many, many friends. 

Throughout his life Jaxin carried the weight of depression and anxiety, often feeling like he never quite found his place in the world. His mind, so full of brilliance and curiosity, also bore the burden of deep reflection and relentless questioning. Despite the love that surrounded him and the talents he generously shared there were times when the world felt distant, a place where he searched for belonging but often felt like an observer. His struggle was a testament to his sensitivity and depth, and though it brought pain, it also shaped the kindness, empathy and understanding that defined him. His journey reminds us of the invisible battles so many face and the importance of meeting them with love, patience, and grace.

He leaves behind his parents, Kaycee Vandenberg, Travis (Angie) Vandenberg, and Kelly Stewart; and siblings: Austin and Waylon Vandenberg and Poppy Stewart. He shared a particularly close bond with his grandparents, Erlene and Joe Goodin, whose love and guidance were a constant source of strength and joy. His relationships with his Aunt Talia and Uncle Camron Quartuccio and their children, Zoey and Jack, brought him great comfort and laughter throughout his life. He was fortunate to have many close friends, among them he considered: Dylan Folkman, Lisa Folkman, and Taylor Olsen to be like family. He is also survived by a long list of grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends who loved him very much. 

Jaxin was a faithful student of the spiritual teachings of the Tao Te Ching and found comfort in its passages during his final moments. His choice encourages us to trust the wisdom of acceptance, to hold our love and memories gently and allow them to flow without resistance. There is no judgment in the cycles of life, only the quiet return to the source, where all things find their place again.

May his soul find peace, and may we honor his life by walking gently forward, with open hearts and the knowledge that love endures, flowing endlessly like water.

In lieu of flowers please consider donating to The Gift of Chess Foundation: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=RW989WFSK9XGW

The family would like to extend our heartfelt gratitude to the Weber County dispatchers and first responders who answered the call with compassion, care, and professionalism. Their kindness and dedication did not go unnoticed, and we are deeply thankful for the role they played in supporting us during such a vulnerable time.

In honor of Jaxin and to help others who may be struggling, we encourage anyone facing difficult times to reach out for support. You are not alone. If you or someone you know is experiencing thoughts of suicide or emotional distress, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 or visit 988lifeline.org for confidential, 24/7 support. Reaching out can make a difference, and there is help available to guide you through.

Friends may visit with family at a memorial on January 1, 2025, from 12 to 4 p.m. at Aaron’s Mortuary, 496 24th Street, Ogden, Utah 84401.